Recently Queen
Elizabeth II of England celebrated her diamond jubilee. That’s over 60 years as
the Queen of England. She is one of the longest running British Monarchs in
history. So it was a big deal in England. There were all kinds of events to
mark the celebration. Maybe you saw some of it on TV or read about it in the
paper? There was a giant procession down the Thames River with the Queen joined
by over a thousand boats. Millions of people gathered on the riverbank to cheer
for her. In the evening there was even a concert which included performances by
Sir Paul McCartney and Sir Elton John, as well as Stevie Wonder, and an
appearance by the pop musician Will.I.Am who is a member of the band the Black
Eyed Peas. Will.I.Am., who is famous for tweeting during important events,
almost made a huge mistake by appearing with his cell phone before the Queen.
This is a breech of protocol and etiquette. It is a major faux paux. And it got
me to thinking, “What if I ever had the chance to meet the Queen? What would I
need to know so that I wouldn’t offend Her Majesty?”
So I looked it up on the internet, and
here’s what I found:
- Don’t speak unless spoken to.
- When addressing the Queen, say “Your Majesty”.
- Women should curtsey; Men should bow their heads.
- If the Queen offers you her hand, a slight touch is sufficient, you don’t need to squeeze her hand or shake it profusely.
- Allow the Queen to leave the room first.
- Never turn your back on the Queen.
- During meals, the Queen eats first and everyone stops eating when she stops.
- Eat what is served and do not request any more or less.
- Do not get up from the table, unless it is to go to the bathroom, and even then it is better to cross your legs and wait.
Today we celebrate the
Feast of Corpus Christi. As Catholics we believe that the bread and wine
offered at Mass, through the intercession of the Holy Spirit, becomes the Body
and Blood of Jesus Christ. We say that it has been transubstantiated. That
means that the substance of the bread and wine has been changed even through
the accidents, or the appearances, of bread and wine remain. This is technical
language. But what it means for us as Catholics is that Holy Communion is not
ordinary bread and wine, nor is it merely a symbolic offering, but it actually,
really and truly is the body and blood of Jesus Christ.
Now whereas we may never
meet Queen Elizabeth II, As Catholics we believe that every Sunday, we receive the
Lord Jesus Christ himself in Holy Communion. And so that makes me think, “What
kind of protocols should we follow? How should we come to Mass? What should we
do when we receive Communion, so as not to offend the Lord, or look foolish, or
cause scandal?”
For me, there are two
fundamental principles we should keep in mind. They are the same principles
that govern how we should act around Queen Elizabeth II or any royalty for that
matter. The first is that we should recognize and respect the dignity of the one
we are encountering. Going to Mass is not like going over to a friend’s house
to watch a football game. Nor is it is like going grocery shopping, or running
an errand. When we come to Mass we should be prepared to encounter Jesus, King
of King, Lord of Lord, Maker of the Universe, God of all. And we ought to
behave in a manner that reflects this reality.
Second, in this country
we tend to act as if we are entitled to things. But think of Queen Elizabeth
II, no one places demands on her. She is sovereign. If you were to meet her, it
would be a gift. Same with Our Lord. He is Sovereign. He is the Creator of the
Universe. What claim do we have on Him? Of what can we say we are “entitled”?
If He should come to us, even under the appearance of Bread and Wine, then it
is a gift. Never think for a moment that you are entitled or deserving of
Communion. You are not. But because the Lord gives us His Body and Blood, the
proper attitude therefore should be humility and thankfulness.
So just as there are
protocols for meeting the Queen of England, here are some practical guidelines
for receiving Christ, Our King, in Holy Communion:
You should prepare yourself for Mass: What
you wear is important. You wouldn’t meet the Queen of England wearing street
clothes or dressed for the beach. The ancient Church saw the Mass as the
“Wedding Feast of the Lamb”. A bride wouldn’t go to a wedding dressed in
sweatpants.
You should prepare yourself for Mass:
Not just on the outside but also on the inside. If you are aware of any serious
sins, go to confession.
Because you are to receive heavenly
food, you should fast for at least 1 hour from regular food and drink before
receiving Communion. Now, we don’t want people dying before Mass, so of course,
you are allowed to take medication and drink water. But you shouldn’t stop by
Dunkin Donuts on the way to Sunday Mass.
When you receive Communion, you are
receiving the Lord Jesus himself. Therefore when you first approach the host or
the cup, you should make a slight bow of the head.
When you receive Communion, you do not
take the host; you do not grab the host; you humbly receive the host: either in
the hand or on the tongue. If you are going to receive on the tongue, open your
mouth and present your tongue, so that the priest knows you wish to receive
that way, and so that he can easily give you communion. If you are going to
receive communion in the hand, do it reverently, and with care so as not to
drop the host. Use both hands. One hand placed under the other. St. Cyril of Jerusalem
spoke of making a throne with your hands to receive the Lord. If you cannot use
both hands, because you are carrying something, or someone, then receive on the
tongue.
If you receive communion in the hand,
consume the host immediately. Do not walk away with it. Do not take it back to
your seat. Carefully and reverently place the host in your mouth.
If you have children, or are a guardian
or caretaker, or you brought someone to Mass as a guest, then you are
responsible for them at Communion time. It is your duty to prepare them and
make sure they know what they are doing. It is the custom in our parish that
people should cross their arms to signify they are not intending to receive
communion. Parents, it is your responsibility to teach this to your children
before Mass and to supervise them during Communion.
Finally, since we RECEIVE and not TAKE
Communion, since we should receive Communion, not with a sense of entitlement,
but in a spirit of humility and thankfulness, then it is appropriate after Communion
to make an act of thanksgiving. If you just received the Lord Jesus in Holy
Communion, you SHOULD be in a hurry In hurry to get to the Chickadee? To the
all you can eat Asian buffet? No. You should be in a hurry to either get down
on your knees in thanksgiving for the gift you have received, or you should be
in a hurry to fulfill your mission as Christians by following the Lord Jesus is
selfless love. If these aren’t your aims, and it isn’t a medical emergency,
then don’t be in such a hurry to leave Mass before the closing prayer.
So these are just a few thoughts on the
Feast of Corpus Christi about receiving Holy Communion. One final thought, if I
met Queen Elizabeth II, I think it would be a significant moment in my life. I
think I’d want to tell other people about it. I think it would change my life.
How much more so should the encounter with Jesus, the Lord of Lords and King of
Kings, change our lives? The Eucharist is often called the Sacrament of
Charity. If you have received Communion in the past, has it changed you? Are
you more charitable? Are you more faithful? My brothers and sisters, let us
recommit ourselves this day to receiving the gift of Holy Communion reverently
and fruitfully. May our lives be
changed, may our lives bear fruit, and may our lives bear witnesses to the
greatness of our Lord and King, Jesus Christ.